Now THIS is How it’s Done.

Do you need to get across a lake?  This is how a REAL man does it.  You light up a ciggy, then just lean back.  Your chick will do all the work.  Will she complain?  Of course.  But she won’t complain again, if you get my drift.  You can’t quite see it, but his hand is down his pants.  This is key.  It shows that her suffrage pleases you in every way.

In this situation, the man substituted a hot chick for a powerful one.  You can do either, it just depends on how fast you need to reach your destination.